Hoze Rolon iz Njujorka je samohrani otac troje dece i postao je zvezda društvenih mreža kao "gej tata". Kaže da mu je želja da mladima iz LGBTQ zajednice pruži podršku da se ostvare kao roditelji.

Hoze Rolon (44) je odrastao maštajući o tome da će jednoga dana imati decu, ali kao homoseksualac nije verovao da će mu se ta želja ostvariti.

„Odrastao sam u mačo porodici u kojoj je tata vikao na mene da moram da hodam kao muškarac, a ne kao peder“, prisetio se Rolon u razgovoru za Today.

 

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SHADY ROSE ? : Someone in a funky mood out of nowhere said to me once, “You always look at life with rose-tinted glasses”… ? I wasn’t offended…clearly not knowing enough about my life or how I operate. Don’t confuse positivity with being naive. I count my blessings as they happen. I acknowledge them as they happen. i put it out to the universe as they happen. I remind others (like I did this person) to do the same. It’s inevitable, shit’s gonna go down to challenge us as human beings as it has for many of us this year. But I can’t afford to walk around leaving a bitter pill stuck in my throat. I know many of you can relate—especially in 2020 with COVID, the election, and everything in between. I’ve had enough handed to me to know the moment I get too comfortable, the universe comes down to veer its ugly head. We’ve been dueling each other since I was a kid, but as man, I try to Tango with her while sleeping with one eye open. It was important for me to reiterate to Mz. Shady Rose, although I may appear to show up with rose-tinted glasses, trust I’m carrying a prettier box cutter in my back pocket ready to protect what’s mine while giving you the best hug of your life. ?? ? ? #lgbtqfamily #lgbtq #latinxfamily #gaydads #dadsofinstagram

A post shared by José Rolón (@nycgaydad) on Oct 26, 2020 at 9:27am PDT

Danas, ovaj njujorški planer venčanja je samohrani otac sedmogodišnjeg sina Ejverija i šestogodišnjih bliznakinja Lile i London, a dogodovštine ovd porodice na TikToku prati oko 175 hiljada ljudi.

 

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Stay tuned for a really cool announcement later today, but in the meantime, let’s continue over the next 36 hours to grab him by the polls. Thank you, @hesfired2020 for these incredible hoodies and doing your part in creating change ✌? #bidenharris2020 #vote2020 #grabhimbythepolls

A post shared by José Rolón (@nycgaydad) on Nov 2, 2020 at 6:30am PST

Iako je zahvaljujući svom smislu za humor postao popularan na društvenim mrežama, njegov život je obeležila tragedija. Naime, 2013. godine Rolonov suprug Tim Merel umro je u snu. U tom trenutku, Ejveri je bio beba, a surogat majka je bila u 11. nedelji trudnoće s devojčicama. Rolon  je bio prestravljen, nije mislio da će moći sam da odgaja troje dece.

„Suprug i ja smo bili sjajan tim. Nisam mogao da zamislim da to radim bez njega“, priznao je Rolon: „Ali kada sam se probudio tog dana, kada je bila Timova sahrana, pomislio sam: ‘Ejveri je upravo izgubio oca. Šta bi bilo kada bi se i meni nešto dogodilo?’ Nisam želeo da ga ostavim samog na ovom svetu. Znao sam šta treba da radim.“

Vest o tome da će njihova porodica postati bogatija za dva člana je objavio upravo na sahrani, dok je u crkvi pred 400 ljudi držao pogrebni govor. „To je bio moj poziv na ljubav i molitve. I od tada me svi podržavaju. Zaista je potrebno celo selo za odgajanje dece“, rekao je Rolon.

 

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#tbt to where our family selfies began ❤️ #lgbtqfamily #latinxfamily #gaydads #dadsofinstagram

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I ako samo pogledate slike iz života njegove porodice – čini se da im ide prilično dobro.

„Od usamljenika postao sam neko ko ima divnu porodicu punu ljubavi“, zaključuje Rolon, a prenosi Index.

 

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Beauty School Dropouts #lgbtqfamily #lgbtq #gaydads #beautyschooldropout #latinxfily #fyp #parenting

A post shared by José Rolón (@nycgaydad) on Oct 4, 2020 at 11:21am PDT

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After 6 months of being out of being in school and having no childcare, today is the first day they went back to school. So many feelings all at once. Of joy and sadness and everything in between. 2 days a week for now and who knows how long it will last. But one thing is, I’m ridiculously proud of three of them. I know down the line, as crazy as this was, I will miss this period we had together the most☺️ #lgbtqfamily #gaydads #brooklynfamily #latinxfamily #backtoschool @gays_with_kids

A post shared by José Rolón (@nycgaydad) on Oct 1, 2020 at 6:31am PDT

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Still smiling over our @sailbrooklyn trip with @kegendron + @o.c.e.a.n.n.i.k.a ❤️ ⛵️. #lgbtqfamily #gaydads #sailing #sailingbrooklyn

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Sisters are doing it for themselves! . #lilahcarmen #londonrose @eurythmicsmusic @gays_with_kids #dadsofinstagram #lgbtqfamily #gaydads #annielennox

A post shared by José Rolón (@nycgaydad) on Aug 9, 2020 at 10:15am PDT

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TIKTOK BAN: Don’t let this guy win ?? Special Cameo appearance by Rikki Rios ❤️ ? ?? #tiktokban #lgbtqfamily #lgbtq #gaydads #gay #tiktokfamily @maketrumptiny #dadsoftiktok #antitrump #dadsofinstagram

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Look at these three characters! As crazy hard this year has and continues to be, no year like 2020 will match up to what they have given me and my soul? ??‍♀️ ? #lilahcarmen #londonrose #averywalker #lgbtqfamily #gaydads #lgbtfamily #latinofamilies #loveislove

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